With 25+ years of experience working with 100’s of individuals, couples and families, I offer you an in-depth, comprehensive perspective to help you understand and identify the 'negative, harmful' relationship dynamics and their roots 'at work' in your relationship... as well as an effective 'in the present moment' mindful, body-centered, therapeutic experience to support clearing these negative relationship dynamics within your Self and relationship(s). In Couple's sessions.. you will further experience conscious, compassionate communication insights and skills to support your relationship now and well into the future.
You can take steps today to quickly reduce your personal and relationship stress, suffering and turmoil.
For Relationship, Couples and Marriage Issues…
I support you and your partner in revealing underlying communication patterns, beliefs, denied feelings and emotions usually located just below our conscious awareness that create... stuck, divisive, separative, withdrawn, angry, frustrated and harmful behavioral relationship patterns. Many of our ‘entrenched’ bonding pattern roots come from our family of origin… usually passed down through our parents.
The essence of this process is to help you to redirect where you usually place and direct your ‘attention, awareness energetic’, which is usually for the most of us, outside of our self… or in our ‘heads’… to go deeper into our ‘physical, feeling sensory body and heart intelligence’ so to speak. Simultaneous to this process, I help you clear ‘stuck’ sensations, emotions and feelings in your body while you learn effective conscious, compassionate communication skills.
By quickly identifying bonding patterns that create experiences of separation, frustration, attack or withdrawal and neutralizing the underlying energetics ‘running’ them while learning to communicate from our hearts and our immediate, present moment body experience you will instantaneously (yes instantaneously!) open a pathway where you and your partner will experience a concrete, feeling experience of greater connectedness and heart centered intimacy that will strengthen your relationship bonds.
This is inherently a natural skill, a natural way of being and experiencing our self and partner that through ‘life experiences’ we usually lose a direct connection to.
Normally, there are 4-5 negative ego/family of origin bonding patterns we need to identify and clear. As you clear them and employ 'conscious, compassionate communication skills'… you will truly transform your intimate relationship.
Couple Fees: $100 per 90+ minute session. I have found 90-120 minute sessions are far more cost and therapeutically effective then the traditional, arbitrary 55 minute session.
For Individual Process Work…
Many of our stuck, repetitive, self-limiting individual issues we might name them to be stress, depression, trauma, anxiety, anger... almost, in all ways, have some form of relationship or 'mirrored' relationship component connected to them.
When working with you as an individual, I am able to support you to go deeper into your ‘body’, your subconscious so to speak and connect with your own, organic healing wisdom and process to ‘identify, locate, remove and repair’... emotional triggers, mental looping, stuck behaviors, pain body issues, trapped trauma experiences that unconsciously, negatively affect and ‘run’ our life. To become our free, creative, authentic Self, we all must clear our negative ego patterns and the pieces connected to them.
Again, we usually have about 5 main behavioral themes or patterns that can negatively affect who we are and how we live our life.
Individual Session Fees: $100 per 90+ minute session
For Blended Families...
Couples coming together with children from a previous relationship can create a vast spectrum of relationship dynamics that is very challenging to navigate. Sometimes we need to clear issues and behavioral patterns from our previous relationship(s) we happen to bring into our current one. Many times we, as the adults and parents of the new family struggle to find our role and relationship with our partners children as well as with each other. There can be communication issues and family logistics issues around household duties and finances... rarely are these transitions... effortless. Support in working through all the relationship and logistical dynamics will reduce tension and stress for all.
Couple Fees: $100 per 90+ minute session.
All my services are offered in person or by Skype and Telephone.
I do offer sliding scale fees upon inquiry.
For additional inquiry information or to book a session please call or email me today! I do my very best to provide a same day response.
Bill Hodges, M.T.P.